Many of us try to live to expectations to what others want us to be. Like me, we are striving to achieve balance and wanting equal opportunities in a world where the balance point is questionable.
I’m not sure it’s age, but I think I hit the point where if “You don’t like it, lump it!” Not saying I am perfect or the queen of anything. I just know myself well enough to what makes me happy. I believe other people are so into the stereotypical ideas on what relationships, friendships, and how we should live our lives. Last time I checked, life is a dice roll. You want to take a chance here, then you accept the consequences there.
Maybe I am a little cynical, but how does anyone truly know what makes me happy when they don’t live in my skin or see what I see. My future is up to me. Who I socialize is my choice. Just like I have the power to have a crappy life through bad decisions, I also have the power to have a terrific life by good decisions and excluding the things or people that make me sad.
Have a great day today! After all, if you don’t have a great day… how could you have avoided that?